Do not Act when Angry

This is the 100th post on this very site and the author is taking it in another dimension. But irrespective of the dimension this article is taking, it is an important topic. It is very vital because many have lost a lot of valuable things due to the actions they took when they were angry. You have to get it right. The author will give you reasons why you have to calm yourself when angry.

You may be Misunderstanding the Situation

Maybe there is something important you wanted to discuss with someone or a friend. You called for about three times on phone and he didn't pick up your calls. After about three hours, you called again and he didn't answer again. You became angry and began to read another meaning into the situation that the friend did not answer your calls.

You may feel that he intentionally did not want to answer your calls. You may think within you that he was avoiding you. And because of that you end up start giving him an attitude that is not suppose to be so. You developed such attitude because you were angry.

You got it all wrong because you were angry. That your friend maybe was in a meeting when you were calling him. Also, he might be in a long meeting those moments you were calling him. So, do not act when you are angry. Doing such can make you take wrong decision that is not suppose to be so. Control yourself and do not easily arrive at conclusion when such situation arises.

Do not act to keep your Relationship

Yes your relationship is very important. Because of how important it is, do not act when angry to maintain the relationship. Many young men and women have ended their long relationship because of anger. A little misunderstanding has crumbled the relationship many have built over the years.

When you are angry, the best to do is not talking to your woman or man at that point in time. Just hold and put yourself in order. Sometimes it may be hard for you to do but you can do it. You can discipline yourself at that point in time. Please do not let it out because some when they come out of people's mouth are like atomic bombs that can cause many havoc.

If it becomes too much that you may be finally tested to talk, just try and leave that your place to somewhere else at that point in time. You can go to bar and relax for some time at that moment or go and watch games. It will make you to be free and a little bit relieved. Just do everything possible not to let the cat out of the bag.

Words are powerful and can injure your true boyfriend or girlfriend deeply. If you utter some hard words to your partner because of anger, it can leave a scar on the mind of your girl or guy. Be very careful when you are angry. Do not hurt him or her because of your anger. It is better not to act when angry than to act and spoil everything.

Avoid it in your Place of Work

Avoid acting when you are angry in your place of work. Every office has what is called ethics. All these work ethics are what make employees behave themselves when they are in their places of work. Work ethics serve as control to workers in their places of work.

So, you acting in a way you do not suppose to because of your anger or because you are angry is going out of the control. It is breaking out of the work ethics and does not tell good of the worker that commits the act. If you react abnormally in the face of your customers because you are angry, it shows high level of unprofessional practice. This can make the company you work for lose many customers.

Instead of you to display when you are angry in your place of work, find a way or ways to calm yourself. Do not display the produce of your anger in your workplace. Action like this has shown many workers the exit door. Many after being sacked by the manager due to their misconduct have been wandering for a long time searching for other jobs. Many have been beaten mercilessly by hunger. All are as a result of their actions when they were angry.

Even if you face pressure from your manager when you work as a marketer in any company, it is not enough for you to act when angry. It is one of the experience you get when you work for another man. Any person who works in another man's company is not always free totally. He is under check and can be sacked due to misconduct of any form. What you have to do is to calm down, save your money, and start your own business.

In order to retain your space in that company where you work, you have to behave yourself. Even when your manager shouts at you, just try and compose yourself. Do not fight or shout back at him. His is your boss and you are under his control as far as office work is concerned. You take instructions from him. Do not act when angry.

You may End in Regret when you Act

Top experts discuss what you should never do when under the influence of anger, with tips for regaining your composure. One of the things you should not do when you are angry is not to drive. If you drive when you are angry, there may be higher risk of you getting involve in an accident. This kind of accident can make you sustain injuries that you will regret in your life. 

It is not as if you have not been driving, but in that mood you think about a lot of things. You think about what made you angry and what you would have done at that stage when you jumped into that which made you angry. It is not a good time to drive. You can hire a driver to drive you home to keep you in a safer state or take a taxi home. Many have lost their lives because they were in this state and drove their cars. 

The Author's Little Advice

Nothing worth dying for in some cases. So, you dying or acting in a stupid way because of anger will not solve the problem. We all make mistakes and learn from those mistakes as well. You have to learn from the mistake of others and not waiting until you make the mistake yourself. Many have killed because of anger and some have done many bad things due to the same state. Hold and control yourself.

If it is certain kinds of argument that make you angry most times, then do not involve yourself in such kind of argument. If it is your coworkers that make you find yourself in that state, distant yourself from them. You can as well talk to them individually that you don't like that kind of attitude. In summary, do not act when you are angry.