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Saturday 16 May 2020

Who is to be Blamed


Life is a journey which every living soul on this earth is a partaker. You are a member of this party once you are born. But the issue is that many people are not happy in their existence in this life due to one reason or the other. The question is: who is to be blamed? Is the blame to be directed to your parents; your friends; your government; your God or even to yourself? 


What You Need to Do


Unemployment Issue

If your worry is unemployment, I want to tell you that there are people who even died before they graduated from their places of study. There are those who are even employed but are regretting while they work in such offices or companies. 

Solution

The ways out of this issue are many. It is not a must that you must be in offices related to your course of study. I want to provide alternative to you. How do you see that? You can learn other important skills like computer skills (designing, networking, and others) writing as an independent author and repairs. 

The most important thing about that of computer is that you can even earn while at home. Another is that you can learn how to write and make money from it. Think about what you can do and make money on your own. There are many independent authors who write and publish their books on Amazon Kindle and make cool money on monthly basis. 

Some have even taken it as their personal job because they are making living from it. You can drop message for me in the comment section or write to me personally if you want to learn the way. 


Money Issue and Solution

If your problem is no money, I want to assure you that there is still hope for you. What matters is commitment and not complaining from one person to another. Who is your mentor? Do you have any? If no, get a good and new mentor who will assist you. You can change that job of yours and engage in a better one, just take a bold step; you can do it!


Academic Problem and Solution

Is your result in the school not making sense? Do not be troubled so much or worried. What matters a lot is your commitment. Note that you can live better than the most academic intelligent in that your department. Another thing that matters is having fore sight. 
There are people who did not get all the distinctions when they were in tertiary institutions but they do well in the real world. Yes, they make more money in the real world and are richer in practical. Even if you do not have all the A's in that your department, do not kill yourself. Just do the much you can do. Put the necessary efforts. 

Marriage Challenge

Maybe you find it difficult to sleep for some times now. You have sleepless nights because you do not have a real guy to call your partner or your own husband. When you go out of the street, you see some women with their husbands while you are always walking single. You become sad as you cannot understand what you have done wrong for you not to have your own husband. 
As a man, maybe you are worried on when you will find that right woman. Most ladies you met do not have the qualities you want in a woman. To make it worse, maybe they were the nagging type. And I know what it means to date a nagging lady; not a good experience at all. 

You check and it seems your time is running late. Almost all your friends as a man have their wives. They are married and to you it is getting late and you need to act fast before you become out of date man. Everyday you looked yourself on a mirror and found out that you are not getting any younger. 

Solution

If as a woman you know you have come of age and you are not married yet and you want to get married, it is not the reason to be having sleepless nights. There are many women who are living with their husbands today and yet they are not happy. They wish they are not married in the initial time. They fight wars in their homes almost everyday. 

That a woman is married does not mean she is happy. Some of them are enduring a lot and some want to get divorce letter. So, I want you to change that idea of "I must get married" as a woman. You better fight on how to live a comfortable life and be happy. That is what is important than going to live with a beast in the form of a man and end up regretting later in life. 

Even if you really need to get married and yet it seems nothing is happening, take your time and check yourself. Is your character good enough for a man to take you into his home? Are you accommodating? What is your philosophy about dating? What are the things men complained about you the most? Are you always mean and harsh to men? Think about these and make amend if you are guilty of any. 

For men who are worried because they have not seen the love of their lives, you do not need to blame anybody. Do not be too selective but rather think twice. It is hard to get a woman with 90% of the qualities you want. Just be considerate as you search for your choice. 

If you feel that your guys are all married and it is only you that is left, you do not have to blame anybody. You do not even have to blame yourself. Find a good wife and get married like them. But before the marriage, make effort and have the resources to sustain you two and your children. Do not rush into marriage and regret later. 

In summary, put all your trust in God for He can help you out and also work your way out. Feel happy and weep no more! Work your way out and do not blame anybody in life. Stop being angry and BLAME no one!

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