Life is full of ups and downs

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It may taste bitter. It may seem yours is the worst. To you, you are feeling that you are not living the life you want to live. Your family members are demanding so much from you to the extent that you can't even sleep in the night properly because of the pressure.

People close to you are asking from you and you cannot say no to them because they are so dear to you. It seems you don't enjoy anything from the pay you get from your work. To you, you are working for others to spend.

To even save a little amount of money from the money you get from the job you do is a problem. Before you are paid, calls have already start coming in. The most annoying thing is that these calls are coming not to add to your earnings but for expenses.

At a point, you began to ask yourself whether you are created to spend for people and not to spend for your own needs and wants.

These are part of the disturbances people who are working face many times. Sometimes it may appear as if those issues are lined up. After one the other comes.

These are practical experiences some people have. To even buy clothes and wear is usually a problem. The reason is because close friends and family demands have taken everything. It is a big challenge to many people. But the truth is that we keep living and moving on.

You may enter into relationship as a young man or woman with the aim that it will lead to the "permanent site". One day, you observed that your partner is changing.

You asked for explanation on what was the problem but could not get any tangible answer. On daily basis, you observed that the negative change was increasing. You made an attempt to settle everything but to no avail. You became sad and heartbroken.

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At the end, the relationship crumbled and you felt that the world has ended due to the challenge. You might have asked yourself what was going on as none of the relationships were working out. That's the real issue many youths face. But you know what? It passes a message to you that life is full of ups and downs.

The issues should tell you that nothing is completely smooth in life. The rich also cry. You may think that they have it all but it is not always so. So, relax and listen to understand the real thing about the world we live in.

Are you a student? Do you think that the pressure you are passing through have overfed you. Nothing is working out as you plan. After you have written a course expecting distinction, you ended up seeing average score when the result came.

You thought that was spiritual. You felt somebody somewhere is using diabolic power to spoil your 'show'. There is nothing spiritual there. You do not give anything bad that happens in your life a spiritual connotation. It is wrong philosophy.

That is up and down that we witness in our everyday life. So, do not be troubled so much. Do not see that academic challenge as the end of life. That should be seen as part of life hustle.

Some factors can be the cause of the poor grade but not spiritual. One may be laziness and insincerity from the part of the lecturers. Some lecturers are too lazy to sit down and mark the scripts of their students. Some also want bribes from students before awarding good grades to them.

In some institutions of higher learning where there is poor monitoring of the lecturers, they can do anything they like and go free. Some just give marks at random and forgot about the written exams by the students. But above all, if you know what you are doing in life, the poor grades they give you can't prevent you from excelling in the practical world. They are not your God and can't be.

No matter how huge you think the demand from your family members and friends are, just know that it will not always continue like that. You cannot just be working for other men to be spending them for you through their expenses and burden. One day, there will be abundance. And when there is abundance, you may not see such demand as big problem.

But let me advice you, there will be a point when it will get to and you have to start scrutinizing everything. It's not every request or demand that you will give ears to. Don't allow them to kill you before your time. Learn how to say no to some demands. Be wise enough dear youths. If you answer to every request or demand, you will find it difficult to build your own self.

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Nobody wants to hear your excuses. What people want to see is result. If you fail to achieve anything tomorrow because you were busy attending to every request from family and friends, the same people will call you failure. So, wise up. Do not allow other peoples burden to give you serious headache. God for us all but all man for his own. Let that sink into you.

That those relationships fail should not be a barrier for you entering another relationship. Be strong and move on. Do not give up at all. One day you will get the right person.

In summary, life is full of ups and downs. So, be smart, intelligent, and then follow things up gradually. So far you do things right, those storms will not last. You will win.