Men... Dickson came around yesterday. If you see his ride eeh. Brand new TEAR RUBBER TOYOTA car. Guy, if you see this ride, you will close your eyes because the spark from the body of the car can make someone blind.
Oh yes... That's cool. That's great. That's okay. It is good to progress. But you know where the problem is? When you start comparing yourself with that person. That can make you get jealous.
And you know what? When you get so jealous because you are comparing yourself with someone else, you can get into trouble. You can start doing things which you may not ordinarily do when you are yourself.
Allow things to flow. Do not get things prematurely because you want to be like someone else whom you feel is doing better than you. Pass through the right processes to produce a product of good quality instead of cutting corners and at the end make substandard products.
Those are wise statements. Wait a minute... Have you seen where a building collapsed before? What do you think might be the cause of the failure? Substandard products and unprofessional works. This ends up putting the society and the engineer that did the job in trouble.
That is how it is when you want to compare yourself with someone else. You get pushed and you may in one way or the other regret your actions later in life.
If you are into business and you want to make lot of profits because to you, you are no longer making enough. You feel you are not meeting up with others as your mates are doing greater things in quote. You start to compare yourself with those you feel are more successful than you. In turn, this makes you to start selling inferior products in the cost of the original products.
Believe me, you will feel the pains in future. To you at that point you are selling inferior products to make bigger money because of comparison with others. You are reaping prematurely but tomorrow you will regret it.
Premature harvest can make you loose bigger offers. It will make you loose integrity. It will paint your image black unknowing to you as a businessman or woman.
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Even if you do not make it as big as those you are comparing yourself with, what's important is that you live a fulfilled life from what you do. Stop comparing yourself with others because that has the power to change the real you.
He has built house and I have not build, and so? You still live in a house. He is studying in Harvard University and am here in this local university, then what happen? You two are all studying. She is from a rich home and am from a poor home, what are you killing yourself over? You can still become rich if you apply the principles for making wealth.
Comparing yourself with others can make you pity yourself. When you are pitying yourself, you develop low self-esteem. And when you develop low self-esteem towards yourself, you are indirectly creating more problems for yourself.
So, tighten your seatbelt. Don't let people start feeling sorry for you because you made yourself cheap. Arise and you can shine bright.
Never compare yourself with someone else. I have this to tell you dear youth; it is not about how far but how well.
Let me bring something to your notice. In those days when I was in the university, there were few guys who were academically sound. They had the best results. I and other students were comparing ourselves with them.
You know what dear youth? They are not the best in practical life after school. They do not live the most enjoyable life standard today. The reverse is the case in most cases. Just make yourself better and do not compare yourself with anyone. Comparing yourself with others will not do you good but that is a human factor anyway.
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